No one will argue with how incredibly painful it is to think about the possibility that your husband is cheating on you. However, if you have a reason to suspect him of treason (or you think that such reasons are), then it is time to search for signs signaling treason, or seek help from a private detective. In order to establish the fact of treason.The longer you put off solving this problem, the worse you’ll feel if you find out that he wasn’t honest with you. If you want to know if your husband is cheating on you, you should keep track of what he says and how he behaves with you, as well as pay attention to the changes that have occurred. If you want to know if it changes, just follow these instructions.
Pay attention to its behavior
Notice the change in your man’s sex drive. We need to look for two changes. If your man has made a connection on the side, it is possible that he will not be attracted to the idea of sex with you as before. If you have some time continues to decrease sexual activity, it does not mean that your partner is cheating on you, but if he went crazy with the desire to lie down with you from bed, and now it has changed, it may be a sign that he gets satisfaction somewhere else.
Another change you may notice is the sudden appearance of your man’s insatiable sexual appetite. More intense sex drive could mean he’s sleeping with another woman.
Pay attention to the way he behaves in bed. He’s suddenly more resourceful? He used to be the same all the time, and now he wants something new every time? Perhaps these ideas come from his connection with another woman.
Think about it, if he suddenly became suddenly ashamed of his body, being next to you, and does not want you to see him without a shirt. If he wants to have sex only in the dark, the reason may be that he feels guilty that he has to share his body with two women.
Pay attention to the behavior of men, if he suddenly began to try to appease you. It is possible that he has become much better to treat you because he feels guilty. If he was distant and not very talkative or not at all inclined to show his feelings, but suddenly became very kind and sweet, always saying some nice things, maybe he’s doing it as compensation for meeting someone on the side.
Again, it is possible that he has become very good simply because you have a difficult time and he is just trying to help you.
If he suddenly brings you flowers, chocolate, or cute postcards, it’s possible that he’s just trying to bring romance back into your relationship. But as an option, he can do it to make amends for treason.
Pay attention to his behavior, if he suddenly began to help more than usual. If your husband usually does not help with household chores, and now began to wash dishes, go shopping and even cook, it is possible that something is wrong here. He’s probably trying to make amends for something, quite possibly treason.
But again, maybe he’s just trying to show his best side, or he’s trying to get something else out of you. However, with such a radical change in family behavior, you should be on your guard.
Watch for changes in the mood of your man. If he is usually not in the spirit, but suddenly began to Shine with happiness or if he is usually calm, and now his mood is constantly changing, it is possible that something is happening. If he has a smile to his ears and looks away, as if thinking about someone, it is possible that his good mood has nothing to do with you.
Other than that, be wary if he breaks in home looking upset and then tries to pin the blame on work or something that has never upset him before.
If you see that his mood has changed after he made a “short phone call” or read an SMS, perhaps the reason for this is another woman.
Pay attention for changes in his behavior during the telephone conversations. If he could leave the phone on the Desk for many hours or he is the type of person who constantly forgets the phone at home, but suddenly he has become inseparable from his phone, it is possible that something is going on. If he stops forgetting his phone, panics when he can’t find it, doesn’t check his messages when he’s near you, or behaves mysteriously, it’s possible that you have a reason to worry.
If he suddenly set a password on his phone, although he had never cared about it before, it’s possible that the case here is unclean.
If he goes out to talk on the phone, and comes back upset, excited, or looks guilty, it’s possible that you should think about who he was talking to.
If you walk into a room when he’s on the phone and he suddenly stops talking, it could be that he was talking to another woman.
If he used to always answer your phone, and now it can take many hours before you get through to him, it is possible that he was at this time with another woman.
If he turns off his phone for many hours and hasn’t done it before, it might be a bad sign.
Watch how he behaves at the computer. If earlier he was not interested in the computer, and now he suddenly began to spend all the time on the Internet, the reason for this may be another woman. If he suddenly became a long time to linger near the computer when you have already gone to sleep, or if he abruptly closes the computer when you go, it’s a bad sign.
If he sits at the computer, and suddenly his face lights up, as if he communicates with his beloved, it may mean that he is cheating on you.
If it doesn’t turn on the computer when you’re in the room, it’s possible that it doesn’t want you to see what’s happening on the screen.
Pay attention to his excuses. If you and your husband used to spend most of your free time together, and now suddenly he’s almost never around for suspicious reasons, maybe he’s spending that time with another woman. If he has a permanent “stag”, if it is every evening working late or suddenly fascinated by the new sport and spends all his free time in the gym, it may be that he is using these excuses in order to spend time with his mistress.
Of course, it may be that he is really interested in a new sport, or he really needs to stay at work every night, but if nothing happened before, and if there were other suspicious signs, it may mean that he is cheating on you.
Pay attention to what he says. Several things may indicate that your man is cheating on you. Here are a few things you should pay attention to:
If he used to compliment you all the time and now he’s stopped, maybe it’s because he thinks about someone else.
If earlier he did not particularly compliment you and suddenly began to do so, perhaps he is thus trying to make amends for the fact that he is cheating on you.
If he just sounds different, uses new words, laughs in new ways, or just builds phrases in an unusual way for him, it’s likely that he borrowed it from another woman.
Pay attention to his appearance
Notice the change in your man’s habit of shaving. If earlier your man did not pay much time shaving or haircut, and now constantly shaves, watching his hair and looking at himself in the mirror, it is possible that he is preparing for a date with another woman.
Note also whether he has taken a shower more often, especially if he does it right after he comes home. It is possible that he is trying as soon as possible to wash off the smell of another woman.
Notice if he didn’t pay more attention to his body. If earlier he did not care much about his physique, but suddenly began to go to the gym every day, run or lift weights, it may be that he is thus trying to bring his body in the right shape for another woman.
Of course, you should consider other factors too: maybe he’s having a midlife crisis and wants to look good again, or maybe he just wanted to keep an eye on his body.
See if he’s suddenly obsessed with what he eats. That, too, could mean he’s showing increased interest in what he looks like because of another woman.
Notice if he didn’t smell different. That’s a big reason to think. If your man suddenly began to smell different, it may be that it was because the chemical processes in his body changed because of the connection with another woman. And if he just smells of perfume, women’s lotion or something else female, it just says that he spends time with another woman.
Pay attention to his body language. Your husband’s body language has a lot to say about whether he’s cheating on you or not. Even if he says the right thing, his body can give him away. Here are some signs that may indicate something is going on:
Notice how often he looks you right in the eye. If earlier during the conversation he looked you in the eye, and now looks away, the reason for this may be a sense of guilt.
Note the lack of tenderness. If before he kissed you, hugged you and showed his concern for you through touch, and now he does not touch you at all, it is possible that something is happening.
Notice if he doesn’t turn away from you during the conversation. If he crosses his arms, turns away from you, it is possible that he does so because he does not feel comfortable.
Note if he shows you his affection when you’re home alone, but not when you’re in public. If he is crazy about you at home, but as soon as you leave the house, immediately becomes detached, it is possible that he is afraid that the mistress will catch him with another woman.
Find out if he’s cheating on you
Go through his things. Although searching his personal belongings is an easy way to lose his trust, if you are sure that he is cheating on you and want to have concrete evidence, you can try this method. If you really want to know if it changes you or not, here’s where to look:
His phone. If he has common sense, you will not be able to find evidence of treason in his phone. And if not, you can find traces of communication with a woman you have not heard of before. It’s possible he didn’t put his mistress’s phone number on his phone, so look for text messages and calls to unknown numbers.
Look at his computer. If you really want to know he is cheating on you or not, view it e-mail or message on Facebook. Can’t wait when he will depart from his computer, but will not work from email. If he also began to carefully delete emails, perhaps this suggests that he is hiding something from you.
Search his things. Examine the contents of his suitcase, Desk, wallet or even pants pockets for evidence.
Look at the Bank accounts. Pay attention to the large amounts spent in the restaurant that you are not aware of. Match the dates and try to remember where he said he was at that time. If he said he was working late that day and actually spent a lot of money on dinner at the restaurant, you have reason to worry.
Follow him. If you’re afraid to ask directly if he’s cheating on you or if you haven’t found enough evidence, you can try to track where he’s going. Again, this is another way to lose his trust very quickly. Here are a few ways you can do this:
Don’t follow him in your car. Take the car from a friend, so he did not notice the tail.
Keep a safe distance. Whether you’re walking or following him by car, don’t get too close or he’ll notice you.
Follow him when he doesn’t expect it at all. If he says he’s working overtime, watching a match at a friend’s house, get there all of a sudden and check to see if he’s really there. Just make sure you have a good reason why you’re there.
Ask him if he’s cheating on you. Once you’ve found enough signs of infidelity, it’s time to talk to your husband. Although the conversation will be painful, it’s best not to put it off if you really want to know the truth. Here’s how you can ask your husband if he is really cheating on you:
Ask him this question when he doesn’t expect it. If you are in a secluded place, you can start this conversation. Do not tell him that you have a serious conversation, otherwise he will immediately guess what you have in mind, and prepare excuses.
Tell him you want the truth. Remind him that his lies will do you no good.
Show him that he really hurts you. Let him see how upset you are by suspecting him of treason.